What Is a Financial Dominatrix
Here’s What To Know About Findom—Where People Get Off on Sending ‘Goddesses’ Money
For the unfamiliar, financial domination, also known as findom, is the sexual fetish where a submissive (cash piggy, finsub, human ATM, paypig) gifts money to the dominant (dom, domme, findom, goddess, cash master) for pleasure. Findom falls under the BDSM bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism) umbrella and typically has a male as the submissive and dominant of any gender.
While not everyone is indulging in findom, the fascination is definitely out there, with a quick Google search returns 759 million results for the word “findom,” and searches for the meaning of the term have increased by 4,900 percent worldwide over the past 12 months, according to Google Trends. For those looking for answers, below I as a elite and professional Doninatrix Goddess will be breaking down the basics of how findom works by responding to some frequently asked questions.
How does findom, or being a financial dominatrix, work?
Findom is really a game changer i primarily connects with clients through my Twitter account.“For me, I post tweets and pictures or videos to lure them in my clients want to see what you can bring to the table, your demeanor, and why you make the best fit to either have a session with or to be their owner—if they’re looking for ownership.” Ownership here being an exclusive relationship.
breaking into the business wasn’t easy. “When I first started, I was posting every day, multiple times throughout the day to gain exposure,” I was Joining engagement groups with other dommes helped to get a boost on the algorithm because you don’t go looking for subs, they come looking for you.”
Is a sub the same as having a sugar daddy?
“I’ve always had experience with sugaring—it paved a way for me to channel my dark feminine energy and was very empowering,” but findom was a next-level kink that suited me better.” Both sugar daddies and paypigs provide monetary benefits, but the main difference is domination. Many sugar daddies don’t want to be dommed or humiliated—a key part of the findom world. “The subs enjoy having control over their finances while alsobeing degraded and humiliated,” The weaker they are, the richer I get.”
What do subs require?
Each sub and domme have their preferred kinks and offerings which they agree upon. I caters to humiliation and degradation. “My subs love when I’m mean, greedy, demanding, and have a more bratty spoiled persona,” “They love the way it makes them feel, especially when they feel inferior and I feel entitled.”
I have built my roster with returning clients. “My regulars either ask for humiliation sessions, foot worship sessions, or just send me money for being pretty,” “They don’t require much from me, but that is not always the case for everybody.”
How much money do you make?
Working in the findom industry means you’re your own boss—so rates are different for everyone and change day by day. “The most money I’ve received for a one-time session was $7,000, from one of my loyal top subs who always goes over and beyond for me,” This generous payment helped me reach $25,000 in income that month; however, on average, I have a $15,000 monthly salary.
Are there benefits to findom?
Aside from financial gains, findom is personally empowering for me after going through past traumas. “I finally feel like I have taken my power back from those who tried to steal it in the past,” “It makes me feel liberated and on top of the world. It’s also made me feel more confident in myself to go after what I want, and demand what I want and receive it.” Every dommes reasons for entering the industry are different, as are their goals, so the benefits you receive, including financial compensation, will vary.
Are there any risks?
safety is still the top priority for me which is why I recommends findoms set clear boundaries between their personal and professional lives. “Keep anything attached to your personal life private,” That includes never using your real name.” also be mindful of location geotags and to never post the same images on your personal pages in case of reversed image searches. “Use a different everything—name, email, payment method, banking details, etc. and make sure to file and pay your taxes. There is so much that you have to be aware of to keep yourself safe, so make sure you do your research first and learn if this industry is right for you.”
Is findom just a get rich quick scheme?
“Absolutely not,” , I runs home interiors, vegan selfcare subscription box , fashion, am Founder of cee magazine and many more other business and “It definitely requires a lot of work and research. You have to be mindful that findom is still indeed sex work so you have to know about the safety precautions as well as legalities [where you live].” Please newcomers should set boundaries and keep things professional.
I made a youtube video about financial domination I also mentioned the site and apps you can use as a dom or sub so go watch it and learn more